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309633246 Says:

Jan 18, 2010 - not bullshit at all

cutestpedophile Says:

Jan 19, 2010 - I think she means "heavy" as in emotionally. She mentioned to be "grieving over loss, sorry to be heavy, but heavy is the cost, heavy is the cost," so she means that she has emotional baggage, and that makes her unattractive to the guy going to meet her, basically.

crohns4life Says:

Jan 19, 2010 - Right after she says grieving over loss, sorry to be heavy. She's apologizing for being so serious, in my opinion it's got nothing to do with weight. Maybe she was fat, don't think it's related to her comment. good song though

blkrush Says:

Jan 31, 2010 - @309633246 You're retarded.

crohns4life Says:

Feb 1, 2010 - I don't get how people cool enough to listen to stars could be dumb enough to think it meant fat. If this song is all about a guy not wanting a fat girl, then this sin't the band I thought it was

309633246 Says:

Feb 2, 2010 - sign of heavy denial, shooting down what I think, if you seriously believed otherwise you wouldn't waste your time replying and you should also work on your social skills. Calling a complete stranger retarded is not very polite, actually it makes you sound like swine. Good day!

309633246 Says:

Feb 2, 2010 - I completely agree with you, ppl can't pick up on someone having heavy emotional baggage before they even speak to them in person unless they were superhuman and had telepathy skills

blkrush Says:

Feb 2, 2010 - @309633246 You're still retarded.

WordsYouForget Says:

Feb 3, 2010 - its obviously emotional baggage. i mean when single m then starts saying at the end nothing too heavy you can tell cause if they were talking bout fat it would be no one to heavy

cacamkn Says:

Feb 4, 2010 - Love this song. So true...so sad....

toromaga Says:

Feb 24, 2010 - ;________;

TheBakaKai Says:

Feb 26, 2010 - What an amazing song. =]

karlkat Says:

Mar 3, 2010 - I actually thought that is song was about her physical appearance, I think it's just a really sad song about how shallow the guy was, at the end he says send photo to address, so now he wants to see the girls before he meets them.

karlkat Says:

Mar 3, 2010 - if the song is about her physical appearance does that make it suck? I think it's about the shallowness of the guy and its a sad song. Listen to the last line of the song

AChemicalCarnage Says:

Mar 3, 2010 - I think the song is meant to be ambiguous. I think that is what's so beautiful about it, other than the execution, singing, piano, ect.. I don't think the lyrics would be as moving if it wasn't open to your own interpretation. I think it's beautiful.

greggraffinci Says:

Mar 23, 2010 - i agree that the main topic is the guy's shallowness, but i believe what truly makes the song crushing at the end is that even he realizes how shallow he is; which is depressing in itself

Linguistmm44 Says:

Mar 25, 2010 - For some odd reason this song is "our" song. I had not actually realized what the lyrics were. Happy memories sticking to a terribly sad song, how fucked up is that?

TheCrow2X Says:

Apr 20, 2010 - If it is about emotional baggage, than why did single m leave without saying anything? I agree... maybe that when she says "Sorry to be heavy" she is talking about her emotional baggage. However, she also states "When you see my face, I hope that you don't laugh. I'm not a film-star beauty, a center photograph... I hope that you don't laugh." She's obviously not attractive.

HeresSeem Says:

May 9, 2010 - ,,,

HeresSeem Says:

May 9, 2010 - @HeresSeem khkh

Sleepgarden Says:

May 22, 2010 - From what I gather, the girl is very self conscious of her looks as well as losing probably her husband/ex-bf. On his side, is that he's either very shallow or he makes up excuses to not go through with them

sh4dow83 Says:

May 22, 2010 - @TheCrow2X it's "i'll send a photograph". and believe it or not, there are people with low self-esteem. i've met at least one hottie who was anorexic and bulimic because she couldn't see how beautiful she was (but don't feel too bad because aside from her looks, she was really convinced of herself and did not tolerate any other views than hers. for all i care, she can die alone in her thirties - which is not some wish on my part but what her doctor said).

sh4dow83 Says:

May 23, 2010 - the thing about this song is... just once, i would like to experience something like this myself. because not once have i met a woman who was (that) insecure about herself and wanted to meet somebody more than i did.

DayDreamBeliever87 Says:

May 28, 2010 - Not that it matters, because it's a beautiful song and everyone cant get what they want from it...but I don't think he left because she was unattractive. She sent him a picture before their aborted date. He knew what she looked like and he still showed up anyway. I think he just couldn't force himself to up to her. He already said "these things can be scary". Relationships, especially new ones, are scary...I think both characters are feeling damaged and "heavy" and just can't bridge the gap.

einsteinslies Says:

Jul 7, 2010 - Heavy shit here, folks.